Category: relationships

Isn’t human attraction fascinating?

Human attraction has always fascinated me. I’ve always loved how we all find our own things that we are attracted to. Forgetting all the masc/fem stories and games and rules and what not that float around. I’ve always been an energy type person. I’ve had crushes on those who were considered the ‘hot’ guys but

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A short love story

Our love story isn’t a cute one where we manifested each other while sitting in ceremony. Or maybe it is. Maybe the fact we were in each other’s neighborhood without even realizing it, intwined in each other’s days without knowing it until we had a conversation, is a sign we were meant to be. We

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Devotion in ceremony

This moment ❤️ How does it feel to witness these images? “To submit means you are weak.” That’s a story many have around men and women in relationship. I know I had it. Many people try to force submission to feel powerful. We can see this playing out in current world events. Yet most don’t

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A little love note

Hey you! Yes you! You are enough EXACTLY as you are in this current moment. There is no need to embellish. There is no need to pretend. There is no need to hide your truth. Even if you are crumpled in a ball on the bathroom floor with tears streaming down your face. I want

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Truly Choose Your Woman

When you choose a woman, truly choose her. Not the wishy washy choosing. Choose all of her. Choose the depths of her rage. Choose the heights of her unabandoned love. Choose the messiness of her way of living life. Choose the calling forward she offers your soul when she witnesses you holding back. You don’t

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Parenting – who really knows best?

My opinion on the issue with society and when it comes down to parenting is this – We have been told over and over that we don’t know best. That we can’t trust our own voices and bodies. That other people know better. That’s why there are parents who run to the ER with every

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Our Wedding Vows

I have decided to share our wedding vows here so that they are forever noted in the internet world. Please enjoy reading them and I hope you can feel a snippet of what we felt when writing and then sharing these ❤️ First up are my vows ❤️🥰 Devotion, Love, Harmony I choose these things

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Cultivating connection

Officially 14 years together this year and over the weekend we renewed our wedding vows on our 10 year wedding anniversary. But we know it begun before this date cough cough 26 July cough cough 😉😝 or if you really want to go back May 16th the day we first met lol who knows the

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I am not here for it

You can keep the friendships where you gossip and bitch about others instead of having conversations about what the actual issue is. You can keep the friendships where you feel you need to compete with each other. You can keep the friendships that are only one sided. You can keep the friendships of convenience. I

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Find yourself before getting in a relationship?

If you are in a position to really find yourself before getting involved with another human – amazing! If however, like me, you are already married or in a long term relationship I have something to say to you. (I will use the term marriage from here on) Marriage is the ultimate training ground. And

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