Category: relationships

Pegging equals power? Not for me.

Years ago my husband offered to let me peg him because he had read some studies about how it helps women who have been sexually assaulted get their power back. I even bought a strap on. But I never could bring myself to even think about it. The idea of needing to have power over

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What isn’t shared

There is so much in our relationship that isn’t shared. My devotion and surrender didn’t come from nowhere. In fact I fought it tooth and nail really. I would allow and then let fear kick in and pull back and away. And in that Rory would go through his growth and change and playing in

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The pendulum swing

When I hear people say they can’t feel my husband because he doesn’t share his deepest feelings on Facebook it only tells me how little they actually know him. If you were at our vow renewal last year you know exactly what im talking about. You can see a small snippet via the photos even.

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Opening my heart

Just when I think I could never experience a better compliment I do. Like “I could stand here with you staring at each other all day, your energy is so beautiful” “Wow your heart and womb are so open and clear, they speak very clearly.” And last but not least “Wow your heart feels like

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Deep reflection of the life I’ve called in

Sitting here in deep reflection. This life that is happening for me and to me that I have called in. Sometimes it scares me but mostly it inspires me. The sisterhood that I have holding me now is beyond words. The deep reverence and honour we have for each other and the people we desire

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For the people who ask what makes our relationship last

Recently I have been experiencing another death and rebirth of my marriage. The ever falling away and new things being introduced. This called for me to stand in a power that I don’t normally stand in because I don’t need to. It called for my husband to stand back, stand up and step in, in

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People are people through people

People are people through people. This is a quote from the book Tandia by Bruce Courtney. Which is the follow up story to The Power of One. And it truly got me pondering. If a different version of ourselves exists in every single person we ever come into contact with, then how do we truly

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Being integral in life

I just finished watching Inventing Anna and it had me so riled up about Integrity and Honesty. And it got me thinking – why? Why do those things mean so much to me now? Why do I get so frustrated when people are living a lie? And I was reminded… That I have had my

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Isn’t human attraction fascinating?

Human attraction has always fascinated me. I’ve always loved how we all find our own things that we are attracted to. Forgetting all the masc/fem stories and games and rules and what not that float around. I’ve always been an energy type person. I’ve had crushes on those who were considered the ‘hot’ guys but

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A short love story

Our love story isn’t a cute one where we manifested each other while sitting in ceremony. Or maybe it is. Maybe the fact we were in each other’s neighborhood without even realizing it, intwined in each other’s days without knowing it until we had a conversation, is a sign we were meant to be. We

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