Tag: love

Flattery or imitation?

Imitation is the highest form of flattery. Or so they say… I want to know why it has become a statement like this rather than a question of Why do you feel you like need to be someone else to be worthy/seen/loved etc? Why, instead of doing things because you feel called to, do you

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Witnessing our children in love

Witnessing my children in their own adult loving relationships is a gift I had no idea I could love so much. Knowing that the way Rory and I have loved each other throughout their years of growing up ultimately has had an impact on who they choose to be in relationship with and how they

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Yep I still get triggered

I used to (and sometimes still can) be triggered when people judged my life and the way I surrender and allow. But then I look in the mirror and see who is truly happy. I deeply love myself some days more than others. I am deeply loved, devoted to and safely held by my husband.

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It wasn’t your fault

The wounds were never my fault. Despite what some spiritual teachings may have you believe. I never asked for the things that happened to me to happen. In no way, shape or form. They were caused by the forms that chose to behave in the ways they did for themselves. Not because of me. But

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Pegging equals power? Not for me.

Years ago my husband offered to let me peg him because he had read some studies about how it helps women who have been sexually assaulted get their power back. I even bought a strap on. But I never could bring myself to even think about it. The idea of needing to have power over

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Satiated

As our naked bodies intertwine The ecstatic energy pulsates through our veins Your touch sears my skin Bringing multitudes of pleasure Your heart beats with mine Our eyes holding onto the view of each other’s bodies Drinking in all that our minds can take and more The heat rises with our pleasure Interconnecting body mind

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What isn’t shared

There is so much in our relationship that isn’t shared. My devotion and surrender didn’t come from nowhere. In fact I fought it tooth and nail really. I would allow and then let fear kick in and pull back and away. And in that Rory would go through his growth and change and playing in

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How to develop perserverance

Perseverance is continuing to do something in spite of obstacles or difficulties. It is one of the best qualities to have because with perseverance, success in your endeavors is almost guaranteed. To persevere we need to have faith that we actually can succeed. If we don’t believe success is possible for us, we will not

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