Tag: relationships

I’m tired.

I’m tired of being the dependable one. You know, the one people rely on to get shit done for them. Or the one who is always there when they are needed and you don’t have to put any effort into the friendship. Just because I’m not a need to speak to you every day person

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Business is done with people we like

One of the most important activities in growing a business is growing relationships. Many people think they can go out to networking events, hand their cards out and the business will come flowing in. It may happen like that, but not likely. It did happen somewhat for my husband and I with our removals company

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Witnessing our children in love

Witnessing my children in their own adult loving relationships is a gift I had no idea I could love so much. Knowing that the way Rory and I have loved each other throughout their years of growing up ultimately has had an impact on who they choose to be in relationship with and how they

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It wasn’t your fault

The wounds were never my fault. Despite what some spiritual teachings may have you believe. I never asked for the things that happened to me to happen. In no way, shape or form. They were caused by the forms that chose to behave in the ways they did for themselves. Not because of me. But

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Know what you want and make it happen

How is your life and/or your business doing? Is it stagnating, boring, going nowhere? Have you become obsessed with meeting those loan repayments or trying to just survive until the next fistful of money comes in? Are you having trouble maintaining your positive expectancy about life and/or business? The way to live satisfying lives is

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What isn’t shared

There is so much in our relationship that isn’t shared. My devotion and surrender didn’t come from nowhere. In fact I fought it tooth and nail really. I would allow and then let fear kick in and pull back and away. And in that Rory would go through his growth and change and playing in

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Is there something wrong with me?

Sometimes I question if there is something wrong with me. I witness other peoples actions and wonder why I can’t do the same. I literally don’t know how to. I can’t say things if they aren’t true for me. I can’t feel things that I don’t feel. I can’t unsee what I can see. My

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The pendulum swing

When I hear people say they can’t feel my husband because he doesn’t share his deepest feelings on Facebook it only tells me how little they actually know him. If you were at our vow renewal last year you know exactly what im talking about. You can see a small snippet via the photos even.

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When there is focus there can be clarity

All of us will know that photographs are clearer when they are in focus. When they are out of focus, they are blurry and indistinct and you need to retake the shot. How many times have you been disappointed by the result when the focus was off in the past with a camera when we

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Opening my heart

Just when I think I could never experience a better compliment I do. Like “I could stand here with you staring at each other all day, your energy is so beautiful” “Wow your heart and womb are so open and clear, they speak very clearly.” And last but not least “Wow your heart feels like

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