Tag: relationships

Gratitude for sisterhood

I would like to honour all the women who have ever had a place in my life throughout the years. Some I still call friends. Some I haven’t seen in forever. Some I have no desire to reconnect with. Some were downright hurtful. But all of them have taught me different things about myself. All

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The power of a dream

I was recently having a conversation and I was deeply inspired listening to the dreams that the people had for their future. While I was speaking, I felt the group of people begin to realize that it is ok to dream and be proud of what you have done in your life and where you

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If it can be said now, say it

Time goes by so quickly. Yet as adults we seem to live as though it doesn’t. Alicia keys said it best in her song “Like you’ll never see me again” when she said I don’t wanna forget the present is a gift And I don’t wanna take for granted the time you may have here

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I’m tired.

I’m tired of being the dependable one. You know, the one people rely on to get shit done for them. Or the one who is always there when they are needed and you don’t have to put any effort into the friendship. Just because I’m not a need to speak to you every day person

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Business is done with people we like

One of the most important activities in growing a business is growing relationships. Many people think they can go out to networking events, hand their cards out and the business will come flowing in. It may happen like that, but not likely. It did happen somewhat for my husband and I with our removals company

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Witnessing our children in love

Witnessing my children in their own adult loving relationships is a gift I had no idea I could love so much. Knowing that the way Rory and I have loved each other throughout their years of growing up ultimately has had an impact on who they choose to be in relationship with and how they

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It wasn’t your fault

The wounds were never my fault. Despite what some spiritual teachings may have you believe. I never asked for the things that happened to me to happen. In no way, shape or form. They were caused by the forms that chose to behave in the ways they did for themselves. Not because of me. But

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Know what you want and make it happen

How is your life and/or your business doing? Is it stagnating, boring, going nowhere? Have you become obsessed with meeting those loan repayments or trying to just survive until the next fistful of money comes in? Are you having trouble maintaining your positive expectancy about life and/or business? The way to live satisfying lives is

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What isn’t shared

There is so much in our relationship that isn’t shared. My devotion and surrender didn’t come from nowhere. In fact I fought it tooth and nail really. I would allow and then let fear kick in and pull back and away. And in that Rory would go through his growth and change and playing in

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Is there something wrong with me?

Sometimes I question if there is something wrong with me. I witness other peoples actions and wonder why I can’t do the same. I literally don’t know how to. I can’t say things if they aren’t true for me. I can’t feel things that I don’t feel. I can’t unsee what I can see. My

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