Our Wedding Vows

I have decided to share our wedding vows here so that they are forever noted in the internet world. Please enjoy reading them and I hope you can feel a snippet of what we felt when writing and then sharing these ❤️ First up are my vows ❤️🥰 Devotion, Love, Harmony I choose these things

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It is safe to be

Feeling tender Heart asking to be witnessed Fear of falling Or fear of flying? Listening but not wanting to Not wanting to but needing to Stay grounded she reminds herself Stay open she reminds herself But the cracks still appear. “You haven’t failed” she quietly whispers to her tender heart. “You are succeeding in more

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Listen to the experts! They know best!

Yes in many cases this can be completely true. However in some it can be untrue. For example – if I had listened to my GP instead of trusting my gut, my sons cholesteatoma would have grown to who knows what size and potentially worst case caused paralysis because he thought it was just an

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Love is…

Love is an action word. A doing word. A verb. This love we have could be authentically described as a magnetic soul interconnection that materialises when two people meet and look into the mirror of their own souls. It’s insightful to see all you have tried to escape reflected back at you in the eyes

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For the people who ask what makes our relationship last

Recently I have been experiencing another death and rebirth of my marriage. The ever falling away and new things being introduced. This called for me to stand in a power that I don’t normally stand in because I don’t need to. It called for my husband to stand back, stand up and step in, in

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Does expectation breed confidence?

Are you someone who finds expectations heavy and a burden? Or are you someone who feels ready to take on the world at the idea of an expectation you have? Often our expectations are based on the assumptions we have about people or groups of people. The same is true of ourselves. Have you ever

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A world of Cultural appropriation.

I have a few questions. And these questions may trigger people seeing as I have a wide array of different cultures and spirituality following me. And if it does cool, deal with that yourself don’t project it at me 🤣 Here we go: 1: Why is it normally only white people who refer to having

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Easy Ways To A Better Life

Want a better life? Big changes are difficult, and take time, but there are many easy steps you can take right now. Take many steps, even small ones, and pretty soon you’re getting somewhere. A Better Life Today It’s easy just to look, right? Start looking for specific ways to make your life better, and

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Effective Strategies for Overcoming Procrastination

In this day and age we are so inundated with choice and opportunity that you might even say we are spoiled for choice. There is just so much that we could do, we often end up not doing anything at all. Procrastination is one of the biggest dream killers. In a world where there is

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Excellence is Never an Accident

My life has been on a trajectory I could never have imagined over these last few years. And as always, it’s had me reflecting on many things. “Excellence is never an accident; it is always the result of high intention, sincere effort, intelligent direction, skillful execution and the vision to see obstacles as opportunities.” The

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I’m not a perfect mother and I don’t want to be

I received what I consider a compliment recently that I FUCKING loved! And I want other mothers to hear it. Because as mothers we deserve to not be saddled with an image of perfectness. The comment was: “I finally caught up to you and stopped trying to be a perfect mother and now I’m having

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Lacking energy? Try these!

I had many times where I have wondered why I have no energy. Feeling that I’ve done everything ‘right’ so what is going on… Fatigue and a lack of energy have been problems, big problems. In an effort to find out why, I’ve asked doctors, read books, and ended up deciding that some questions may

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Is it a trauma response?

People think that dealing with things on your own is a trauma response. And it can be. Sometimes. But other times it’s needed because sometimes it’s your own voice that needs to be heard and in a sea of other opinions, no matter how well meaning, your own voice can get drowned out. No matter

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Take off the masks, please

And no im not talking about the flimsy, physical masks people have been wearing for the last couple of years. Im referring to the masks you wear to hide who you truly are. The more that you decide to act how others act, be what you think others want you to be and ignore the

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