Tag: marriage

Isn’t human attraction fascinating?

Human attraction has always fascinated me. I’ve always loved how we all find our own things that we are attracted to. Forgetting all the masc/fem stories and games and rules and what not that float around. I’ve always been an energy type person. I’ve had crushes on those who were considered the ‘hot’ guys but

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A short love story

Our love story isn’t a cute one where we manifested each other while sitting in ceremony. Or maybe it is. Maybe the fact we were in each other’s neighborhood without even realizing it, intwined in each other’s days without knowing it until we had a conversation, is a sign we were meant to be. We

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Devotion in ceremony

This moment ❤️ How does it feel to witness these images? “To submit means you are weak.” That’s a story many have around men and women in relationship. I know I had it. Many people try to force submission to feel powerful. We can see this playing out in current world events. Yet most don’t

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Truly Choose Your Woman

When you choose a woman, truly choose her. Not the wishy washy choosing. Choose all of her. Choose the depths of her rage. Choose the heights of her unabandoned love. Choose the messiness of her way of living life. Choose the calling forward she offers your soul when she witnesses you holding back. You don’t

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Our Wedding Vows

I have decided to share our wedding vows here so that they are forever noted in the internet world. Please enjoy reading them and I hope you can feel a snippet of what we felt when writing and then sharing these ❤️ First up are my vows ❤️🥰 Devotion, Love, Harmony I choose these things

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Cultivating connection

Officially 14 years together this year and over the weekend we renewed our wedding vows on our 10 year wedding anniversary. But we know it begun before this date cough cough 26 July cough cough 😉😝 or if you really want to go back May 16th the day we first met lol who knows the

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Find yourself before getting in a relationship?

If you are in a position to really find yourself before getting involved with another human – amazing! If however, like me, you are already married or in a long term relationship I have something to say to you. (I will use the term marriage from here on) Marriage is the ultimate training ground. And

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A man up for a challenge

No matter what I challenge this man with he always steps up to it. I don’t know or respect another man more deeply than I do him. I married him for a reason. Not that I knew it back then. He willingly owns every part of himself even when his ego doesn’t want him to.

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Feedback is your friend

“You feel different”. It’s a comment I receive so regularly now. I’m not really surprised, I am grateful though, when it comes from the people who have been at ground level of my development work because they have seen me warts and all. When it comes from my friends who have been in my life

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Is this True Love?

Me and this beautiful human I get to call my husband, we got together as what may as well have been still babies. I was 24 and he was 20. I was divorced with two kids. He had just got out of his 2 year first relationship with his gf. Together we have made every

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