Tag: women

Witnessing our children in love

Witnessing my children in their own adult loving relationships is a gift I had no idea I could love so much. Knowing that the way Rory and I have loved each other throughout their years of growing up ultimately has had an impact on who they choose to be in relationship with and how they

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Pegging equals power? Not for me.

Years ago my husband offered to let me peg him because he had read some studies about how it helps women who have been sexually assaulted get their power back. I even bought a strap on. But I never could bring myself to even think about it. The idea of needing to have power over

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For the people who ask what makes our relationship last

Recently I have been experiencing another death and rebirth of my marriage. The ever falling away and new things being introduced. This called for me to stand in a power that I don’t normally stand in because I don’t need to. It called for my husband to stand back, stand up and step in, in

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I’m not a perfect mother and I don’t want to be

I received what I consider a compliment recently that I FUCKING loved! And I want other mothers to hear it. Because as mothers we deserve to not be saddled with an image of perfectness. The comment was: “I finally caught up to you and stopped trying to be a perfect mother and now I’m having

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My gut knows best

Sometimes listening to my body sucks. But only in a mind wants to be in control type way. Yesterday I got my period. I had already gotten a yes in my body to attend the rally in Brisbane but I checked again because normally when this time arrives I take time to myself and away

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Devotion in ceremony

This moment ❤️ How does it feel to witness these images? “To submit means you are weak.” That’s a story many have around men and women in relationship. I know I had it. Many people try to force submission to feel powerful. We can see this playing out in current world events. Yet most don’t

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Truly Choose Your Woman

When you choose a woman, truly choose her. Not the wishy washy choosing. Choose all of her. Choose the depths of her rage. Choose the heights of her unabandoned love. Choose the messiness of her way of living life. Choose the calling forward she offers your soul when she witnesses you holding back. You don’t

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Parenting – who really knows best?

My opinion on the issue with society and when it comes down to parenting is this – We have been told over and over that we don’t know best. That we can’t trust our own voices and bodies. That other people know better. That’s why there are parents who run to the ER with every

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