The place where things go wrong is when you assume the absolute of who a person is. It gives them no room to grow. It gives them no room to make mistakes. It gives them no room to make different choices to what you think they should. It stops you from being able to love
Tag: friends
Once at dance class, right near when I first started this year, when we did the usual activity of going to partner with someone we don’t know I turned and made my way over to these girls who then got up and walked away from me, even caught a side eye from one of them.
I was recently having a conversation and I was deeply inspired listening to the dreams that the people had for their future. While I was speaking, I felt the group of people begin to realize that it is ok to dream and be proud of what you have done in your life and where you
Just when I think I could never experience a better compliment I do. Like “I could stand here with you staring at each other all day, your energy is so beautiful” “Wow your heart and womb are so open and clear, they speak very clearly.” And last but not least “Wow your heart feels like
People are people through people. This is a quote from the book Tandia by Bruce Courtney. Which is the follow up story to The Power of One. And it truly got me pondering. If a different version of ourselves exists in every single person we ever come into contact with, then how do we truly
Human attraction has always fascinated me. I’ve always loved how we all find our own things that we are attracted to. Forgetting all the masc/fem stories and games and rules and what not that float around. I’ve always been an energy type person. I’ve had crushes on those who were considered the ‘hot’ guys but
Do you ever have thoughts about what it would be like to not be who you are? Sometimes I wish I couldn’t see through peoples smoke and mirrors. Much like some imagine themselves with no tattoos, I imagine seeing and hearing what people say instead of the behind the scenes of it. Then filtering what
What are the people you have around like? How do they feed your soul? On this day I felt something welling up from deep inside of me. I didn’t know what it was but I felt it. We arrived at the beach and I left my friends and walked, well more like stomped and stormed,
You can keep the friendships where you gossip and bitch about others instead of having conversations about what the actual issue is. You can keep the friendships where you feel you need to compete with each other. You can keep the friendships that are only one sided. You can keep the friendships of convenience. I
I have come to realise the words best friends and bestie create a reaction in my body now that I had been trying to avoid. I have noticed I have stopped referring to friends as those words. They come with pain and a reminder of hurt for me. And after all, why do we as














