Watch the people around you grow

The place where things go wrong is when you assume the absolute of who a person is.

It gives them no room to grow.

It gives them no room to make mistakes.

It gives them no room to make different choices to what you think they should.

It stops you from being able to love them as the person they are because you are assuming you know all of them.

When you choose to love the pieces they share with you knowing that it might not always be all of them it allows for them to open more of themselves to you.

This is what happens when you live in the moment.

This is what happens when you allow love to lead the moment.

This is what happens when you open to gifts of not knowing everything.

This is what happens when you give people chances to discover themselves instead of trying to live up to what and who others think they should be.

Never forget the longer we pretend to be something we aren’t, the more we tell ourselves who we are isn’t loveable.

And it can be a hard place to come back from.

So if someone isn’t ‘being’ loveable. Maybe they just don’t know how loveable they could be if they stopped trying to be it.

Maybe they need someone to remind them they are loveable in all their shit as well as their glitter.

Think about a time where you have found yourself feeling loved while being in your shit. Did that feel like your heart was opening because it was being held?

Think about a time where you found yourself feeling loved during a glitter moment? Did that also feel like your heart was being opened?

Did you relax into being the truth of yourself?

Or are you still finding it hard to just be who you want to be around others? Maybe that is why you are struggling to allow others the space to truly be themselves?

Xo S